The Single Life..... its actually pretty good!

Have you ever been to a wedding or a baby shower and everyone asks you "when are you getting married? When are you going to have a baby? BLAH BLAH BLAH. Don't get me wrong... I'm sure 80% of us women want the happy ending... but that is the key word... ENDING.

One day I will settle down. One day I will have the house and the kids and the big SUV. Why do I need a man to define my happiness when I am so young? I have amazing friends and family and as long as I go to Hustler on a monthly basis I have amazing sex toys and porn to keep my "single" sex life interesting. Ah sex toys.. my heart skips a beat just thinking about them. They have some wonderful things out on the market these days.

Everyone so often I will call a man like "E" into the picture for a little T & A. But other then that I seem to get everything else I need from other places in my life. Don't get me wrong, nothing compares to having the weight of a man on top of you, but I think at this point in my life that is all I want them for. With friends like Lolita and Maria Elana I think I pretty much have it made. Why does the world want you to rush into a life that when you are there most people always wonder whats next. I dont want to wake up one day and realize I missed my 20's and 30's bc someone told me to grow up.

Now there is nothing wrong with amazing random sex... which I am about to have with an Ex... so stay turned to hear about my amazing sex with Sean.

- Bye for now ... Nell

"Don't do it"

Why are these 3 words so tempting? Why is it when someone tells you not to do something it makes you want to do it even more? 50 percent of married men sleep with women who are not their wives. 69 % of men have fucked a prostitute. 48 states have laws against sodomy AKA fucking someone in the ass, this could get you a life sentence in Georgia. Yet 60% of men have done this.


Why is it that we are so turned on by things that we "shouldn't" be doing? Why do I need the men I know I should run away from. I love then, I want them, and I really do need them.


Close your eyes for a minute and think long and hard about the last time a man gave you an orgasm. At that exact moment, were you thinking of what you should be doing instead? How you shouldn't be sleeping with that asshole again! Were you thinking about the things we should be doing like having romantic fantasies, walks on the beach, holding hands, dinners for two, bearskin rugs in candle lit room with crackling fires on cold winter nights are the things we have been taught true love is all about. If this is true then why are the highest levels of arousal reached with thoughts that frighten us, piss us off, or overwhelm us? What is taboo, scandalous, off-limits, is exactly what makes us so fucking turned on.

Till next time
~Nell